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The Scandalous Life of Raine Spencer: Princess Diana’s Evil Stepmother

 

 

 

In the spring of 1992, inside one of the oldest stately homes in England, a 62-year-old widow watched household staff stuff her clothes, her jewelry, and her private papers into black plastic refuse sacks. Only days before, she sat through the final hours at her husband’s deathbed as the dying earl slipped away.

 Now, her stepson wanted her gone. The new ninth Earl Spencer  wanted it done fast, and the woman they carried out with that week’s rubbish answered to a grand title, Raine Countess Spencer, stepmother of the most photographed woman alive, Diana, Princess of Wales. For 16 years, she poured her energy and a small fortune into rescuing this very house from rot and ruin.

 For 16 years, the family she married into despised her, mocked her behind her back, and pinned on her a nickname that would trail her into the history books, Acid Raine. How did a romance novelist’s daughter, a woman without a drop of inherited blue blood, charm and scheme her way to the summit of England’s grandest  dynasty? And did the venomous gold digger of tabloid legend ever truly exist, or has the story buried a stranger more capable woman? Raine McCorquodale entered the world on the 9th of September,  1929,

in Mayfair, then the most fashionable quarter of London. Her father, Alexander McCorquodale, drew his money from a family  printing empire that supplied much of Britain with its ledgers, forms,  and stationery. Her mother belonged to a different species entirely. Barbara Cartland, not yet the pink-clad  national institution she would later become, already churned out romantic novels at a furious pace, and she met her own life with the same appetite for drama she lent her heroines. Cartland would

eventually sell hundreds of millions of books and turn herself into a pink swathed  caricature of romantic excess, dispensing pronouncements on love and chastity from a chaise longue ringed by lapdogs. Long before that fame crested, she fixed on a single ambition for her daughter: polish and conquest.

 Raine absorbed the lessons young. She learned which fork to lift  and which duchess to flatter, and she drilled herself to hold a smile through any humiliation until that smile set into a second skin no rival ever pierced. The marriage of Raine’s parents collapsed early and bitterly. They divorced in 1936 when she counted only 7 years old, and her mother soon married Hugh McCorquodale, a cousin of the very husband she just cast aside.

 Few children of that decade grew up under so theatrical a maternal eye. Cartland did not raise a daughter so much as audition one, drilling into the girl a code of immaculate presentation, relentless social ambition,    and the conviction that a woman’s surface counted for as much as anything beneath it.

 A young woman of Raine’s class measured her prospects by the season, the annual round of balls and presentations through which debutantes paraded before eligible men and watchful mothers. Birth opened those gates. Money could sometimes buy a ticket, yet the McCorquodale fortune carried the faint taint of trade, of ink and paper and commerce that the grandest families  looked down upon.

 Raine entered this arena already marked as a striver rather than a native inhabitant, and she resolved early to outperform every girl who inherited a place she  would have to seize. In later decades, Barbara Cartland enjoyed floating a grander story about her daughter’s parentage. She hinted, never quite outright, that Raine’s true father sprang not from the printing family at all, but from Prince George, Duke of Kent, a son of King George V.

 No genealogical record, no surviving letter, no credible witness lends the rumor any weight. The tale belongs among Cartland’s own embroideries, the wishful gilding of a woman who preferred her bloodline brushed, however faintly, with royalty. Raine, raised on such fictions, would spend her life chasing the proximity to greatness her mother could only invent,    and unlike Cartland, she would actually reach it in the flesh.

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 By her late teens, Raine grew into a striking young woman who knew exactly how to deploy what she possessed. Tall, immaculately groomed, and armored in confidence, she dressed with a precision that announced her seriousness about being noticed. She spoke in the clipped grand accent of her class, and carried herself with a poise that read as elegance or as froideur, depending entirely on who happened to be watching.

 People rarely felt neutral about her. From the very start, she split every room she entered into admirers and detractors, and she drew her energy from both camps at once. On the 21st of July, 1948, at the age of 18, Raine married the Honorable Gerald Legge, a young man who would in time inherit the title of ninth Earl of Dartmouth.

 The wedding announced her arrival in society, and the press of the day fawned over the glamorous bride with the famous formidable mother. Over the years that followed, the marriage produced four children, William, Rupert, Charlotte, and Henry. By any conventional reading, the script of her life seemed settled. A society wife, a clutch of well-bred children, a country house, a diary of luncheons, yet the caricature that would later swallow her whole, the wicked stepmother of fairy-tale shorthand, erased something the record refuses to bury. Raine

declined to retreat into ornamental domesticity. She wanted a public arena, and she walked out and claimed one. At the age of 23, while still raising small children, she won election to Westminster City Council and entered its chamber as its  youngest member, a startling feat for a young woman in the early 1950s.

 A woman reaching for real power in 1950s Britain ran hard against the current, with the Commons still a near-total male preserve, and wives of her standing steered  toward charity galas and the nursery. Raine ignored all of it. She wanted the committee rooms where decisions actually happened, and she clawed her way into them while her contemporaries arranged flowers.

 What followed surprised everyone who filed her away as merely decorative. Raine proved a tireless and genuinely effective local politician across nearly  two decades of public service. She joined the Greater London Council,  took the chair of the Covent Garden Development Committee, and threw herself into the unglamorous machinery of planning law,  conservation orders, and municipal budgets.

 Few of her tabloid critics ever bothered to learn this. The woman they would paint as a frivolous parasite spent her best energies fighting hard and in public to protect the physical fabric of London itself. As a councilor, Rain earned a reputation for proving impossible to overlook. She mastered procedure, did her homework, and bulldozed opponents with a blend of charm and sheer relentlessness that left committee men exhausted.

 In the council chamber, she dressed as though for a gala, and more than one colleague mistook the glamour for frivolity until he tangled with her over a planning vote and learned his error. The very qualities her enemies later read as monstrous, the iron will and the flat refusal to yield, equipped her for public life.

 She simply pointed them at causes the public could cheer. Covent Garden, the district she fought hardest to save, ran for three centuries as London’s great fruit, vegetable, and flower market, a chaotic  and beloved warren of porters, barrows, and Georgian arcades planted at  the very center of the city. By the early 1970s, planners wrote off the whole quarter as obsolete clutter ripe for clearance, and they drew up schemes to raise it and bury the muddle under motorways and concrete towers.

 Whole neighborhoods across post-war Britain vanished under exactly that logic.    Rain studied the bulldozers and the blueprints and decided some things deserved a public fight. The fight she picked ran against the spirit of the age. Across the 1960s and into the 1970s, British planners and architects worshipped the new, treating Victorian terraces and Georgian frontages as embarrassments fit only for the bulldozer.

 Conservationists who objected drew dismissal as sentimental cranks blocking progress. Raine planted herself on the unfashionable side of that argument and refused to budge. And the district she defended outlived the concrete utopias her opponents wanted to raise in their place. Her finest hour as a public figure arrived in 1972, and it cost  her something to claim it.

When officials drew up plans to flatten swaths of historic Covent Garden, replacing centuries of architecture with the brutal modern blocks then in fashion, Raine fought the scheme from inside the system. When the system would not bend, she resigned in protest, surrendering her committee chairmanship to render her opposition impossible to ignore.

 The gesture worked. Her campaign helped halt the demolition,  and the Covent Garden that draws visitors today owes part of its survival to her stubbornness.  That single resignation did not exhaust her. Raine fought on in the same years  to shield the Tate Gallery and the National Portrait Gallery from redevelopment schemes that threatened to swallow or diminish them.

 She regarded old buildings as living inheritances rather than obstacles to progress, and she defended them with the same theatrical certainty her mother brought to a love scene. The woman later accused of plundering and vandalizing one of England’s finest historic houses    spent the prime of her career rescuing the nation’s historic places from the wrecking ball.

 The charge and the record refused to fit together,  and anyone who flattens Rain into a simple villain has chosen not to look. Preservation gave Rain her public purpose, and preservation also handed her the love of her life. Sometime around the turn of the 1970s, while sitting on a committee devoted to architectural heritage, she fell into the orbit of Edward John Spencer, known to everyone as Johnny, then Viscount Althorp, and heir to one of the most ancient earldoms in the realm.

 The two shared an obsession that ran deeper than mutual attraction.    Both adored old houses, old art, old England, and both believed such things deserved a fierce custodian. On committee business, they recognized in each other a rare and consuming passion, and the rest followed from that recognition. The Spencers reached back to the 15th century, to sheep farming and shrewd marriages that bought land, titles, and a closeness to the crown.

 And Althorp sheltered them from 1508 onward. Into this fortress walked a divorced romance writer’s daughter with a council seat and a vulgar mother. The old families recoiled at her very existence, and never let her forget it. The affair began in earnest around 1973. Both still answered to other spouses at the time, and society reacted with the predictable chorus of disapproval  because Rain carried the scent of new money and naked ambition into a world that prized inherited blood above  everything else. To the old

guard, she looked like a climber laying siege to a fortress that should never have admitted her. For a time, the affair held as a discreet open secret, the kind of arrangement grand society tolerated so long as nobody dragged it into daylight. Raine and Johnny, both still married,    conducted their romance under cover of committee work and shared enthusiasm, and the pretense lasted a while.

 It could not last forever. As the relationship deepened and the gossip thickened, the two of them abandoned discretion and chose each other in the open, accepting the scandal as the price of a partnership neither would surrender. Whatever else one says of Raine, she did not hide. She wanted Johnny Spencer, and she would endure being hated to keep him.

 The moral outrage, when it surfaced, dripped with hypocrisy that few of the outraged cared to examine. Johnny’s first wife, Frances Shand Kydd, the mother of his four children, including a young girl named Diana, walked out of the marriage years earlier. In 1969, Frances left Johnny for another man. That departure scandalized the very society now clutching its pearls over Raine.

 The Spencer marriage broke on Frances’s side long before Raine appeared, yet the venom would concentrate almost entirely on the second wife. A family that weathered one wife’s departure lined up to punish the next wife for both. One detail of that earlier scandal sharpened the cruelty of what followed. When the Spencer marriage reached the courts, Frances lost custody of her children in a verdict that leaned partly on testimony from her own mother against her, a defeat that  branded her in the public mind as a woman who picked a lover over her babies. The law and the

gossip columns punished the wife and spared the husband almost entirely. Now the same machinery cranked back to life for Raine. Society leaned on a long habit of blaming Spencer women for the wreckage of a Spencer marriage, and Raine became the latest woman fitted for the part. Raine and Gerald Legge divorced in 1976, which freed her at last to step fully into the role she wanted.

 Two months later, on the 14th of July, 1976, she married Johnny Spencer in a quiet civil ceremony at Caxton Hall in London. She walked out of that registry office as Raine, Countess Spencer, mistress of Althorp, and stepmother to four children who already loathed the very sight of her and would spend the next 16 years proving it.

 The triumph she pursued her whole life lay finally in her hands. The bill for that triumph would arrive later. When Johnny succeeded his father and inherited the Althorp estate, he gained no glittering prize so much as a beautiful catastrophe. The great house, home to the Spencer family for centuries, sagged under decades of neglect.

 Dry rot crept through its timbers, water poured through failing roofs, and the crushing weight of British death duties, the inheritance taxes levied whenever one earl succeeded another, threatened to finish what time and damp began. A lesser couple might have surrendered the place to the National Trust or watched it crumble. Raine refused either fate.

She attacked the problem with the same ferocity she once aimed at London’s town planners. The repairs alone would swallow roughly 2 million pounds, a colossal sum, and the estate  held no such cash in reserve. To find it, the couple turned to Althorp’s one asset in abundance, art. Over the following years, they sold off whole tranches of the family collection, parting with treasures that hung on those walls for generations.

 The losses ran to as many as 11 works attributed to Van Dyck from the wider Spencer holdings, alongside canvases by Thomas Gainsborough, and portraits by Sir Joshua Reynolds. The collection they began to dismantle ranked among the finest any private English family ever gathered. Generations of Spencers bought boldly and well, crowding Althorp with old masters that any museum on earth would have coveted.

 Parting with any of it stung. To sell from such a collection cut against everything Raine claimed to believe about guarding the past, and the irony cannot have escaped her. The to save Covent Garden now signed away Van Dycks to save a roof. She did it regardless,  judging that a half-empty house left standing beat a full house fallen into ruin, and history has largely ruled her judgment sound, even as her stepchildren never did.

 The sales amounted to no smash-and-grab raid carried out by a greedy interloper behind her husband’s back. Johnny Spencer, the eighth earl, authorized every transaction. Master and mistress of the house reached these wrenching decisions together as a partnership, trading paintings they could not afford to keep for a roof that would not collapse on their heads.

 Raine drove the rescue with characteristic force,  and she certainly took the blame for it, yet she did not act alone, and she did not steal what she sold. The two million pounds bought more than a fresh coat of paint.  The money chased the dry rot out of the timbers, sealed the roofs against the weather that poured through them, and steadied a structure.

Decades of neglect drove toward collapse. Visitors who later sneered at Raine’s gilding rarely paused to picture the buckets catching rainwater in the state rooms before she arrived. She inherited a sick building and spent a fortune curing it. And the cure, however gaudy its finish, kept Althorp upright. What the money bought provoked as much fury as the selling.

 Raine redecorated Althorp’s interiors in the bold gilded high-gloss style she adored, drenching ancient rooms in bright color and heavy gold. To her own eye, she restored faded grandeur to its full theatrical glory. To the eye of her stepson Charles, the future ninth Earl, she defaced a national treasure with the taste of a parvenu.

 He would later deride her handiwork with a line that trailed her for the rest of her life, dismissing the result as the wedding cake vulgarity of a five-star hotel in Monaco. The phrase stuck because it carried a grain of malice and a grain of truth at once. Her vision for the interiors sprang from the same instinct that governed her whole life.

 Nothing should ever look tired, faded,  or apologetic. Where her stepson saw the dignified patina of age, Raine saw shabbiness that demanded correction. And she corrected it with gilt, lacquer, and color laid on without the slightest timidity. To one taste, the rooms glowed with restored splendor. To another, they shrieked of money newly arrived and desperate for an audience.

The quarrel over those rooms ran deeper than decor. It amounted to a proxy war between an old aristocracy that prized restraint and an outsider who clawed her way in and flatly refused to whisper about it. If the art sales lit the fuse, the children supplied the powder. From the moment Raine entered Althorp as their father’s new wife, the four Spencer children, Sarah, Jane, Diana, and Charles, closed ranks against her with the cold cruelty only the well-born truly master.

 They lost their mother to one departure and now watched a stranger install herself in their family’s heart. They treated her as an invader and fought her with everything the young and aggrieved can summon. Still raw from their mother’s departure, the children aimed all their unresolved fury at the newcomer.

 Raine drew their fire easily. Brassy, certain, and unapologetic, she swept into their home determined to remake it. And to children already grieving, she resembled a thief stealing the last of their father’s attention. The campaign against her ran the full range from petty to vicious. They guarded their territory, froze her out of family rituals, and played pranks designed to wound her dignity.

 Above all, they branded her with the nickname that would outlive every one of her genuine achievements. Mocking her name and her temper at once, they christened her Acid Raine. And the cruel little pun escaped the walls of Althorp, traveled through London society, and lodged in the press until the world knew her by it.

 A woman who saved Covent Garden and chaired committees at the Greater London Council, found herself reduced in the public imagination to a stepmother out of Grimm. One of those four children would soon overshadow them all. In 1981, the shy, 19-year-old Lady Diana Spencer married the Prince of Wales before a worldwide television audience counted in the hundreds of millions, and overnight Johnny’s  youngest daughter turned into the most famous woman on the planet.

 The girl who helped torment her stepmother now outranked her in every imaginable way. A future queen set against a mere countess by marriage. Raine spent a lifetime climbing toward grandeur. Now, a stepdaughter who despised her outshone it without seeming to try. And Raine, schooled by her mother never to reveal a wound, let nothing slip in public.

 Then came 1978 and a crisis that should have rewritten her reputation forever. Lord Spencer suffered a massive cerebral hemorrhage that nearly killed him, plunging him into a long and desperate illness from which few expected him to return. Through those agonizing weeks, Raine never left his side. She mounted a relentless vigil at his hospital bed, harried his doctors, refused every gloomy prognosis, and willed her husband back toward life with a single-minded devotion that startled everyone who witnessed it. Historians and physicians

who studied the episode credit her nursing, plainly and without much hedging, as a central reason Johnny survived at all. The fearsome social climber turned out to love her difficult husband with a fierceness that surprised even those who hated her. That devotion bought her no peace with his children.

 The feud smoldered through the 1980s and erupted most famously in September of 1989 in an incident that beggars the gentle image we hold of the woman it injured. According to the accounts of witnesses close to the family, including Raine’s former personal assistant Sue Howe and the royal butler Paul Burrell, Princess Diana, by then the most celebrated woman on Earth, shoved her stepmother down a flight of stairs at Althorp during a family gathering.

 Raine tumbled down the steps and rose badly bruised. The provocation, as those same accounts tell it, lay in old wounds rather than fresh ones. Diana reportedly seethed because Raine, at a family event, snubbed Frances Shand Kydd, Diana’s biological mother, the very woman whose departure set this whole drama in motion two decades earlier.

 We cannot reconstruct the exact words exchanged on that staircase and the precise sequence rests on the memory of a handful of insiders rather than on any court record. The bruises, though, proved real enough. Only Johnny kept Raine anchored inside the family through all that hostility. On the 29th of March 1992, he died.

 With him gone, the fragile truce his love imposed on the household dissolved in an instant. Charles Spencer, now the ninth Earl and master of Althorp, owed his stepmother nothing, felt nothing for her but the accumulated grievance of his childhood, and acted on it with brutal speed. He moved against her almost before the grave closed.

On Charles’s orders, household staff packed her 16 years at Althorp into the black plastic bin liners a household keeps for its rubbish a final message of deliberate contempt. The woman who spent her own fortune saving this house found herself bundled out of it like refuse her grief barely begun.

 Charles Spencer never pretended to regret the manner of her going. In his eyes Raine presided over the dispersal of his birthright and the gilding of his ancestral home and he waited the whole of his childhood and youth to rid himself of her. The bin liners to him fit the woman. Cheap, theatrical, final. Yet even some who shared his low opinion of his stepmother flinched at the spectacle of an elderly widow turned out with the household waste days after she buried her husband.

 There sits a difference between winning a feud and grinding a beaten opponent into the dirt. To plenty of onlookers Charles wandered across it. Cast out, widowed, and humiliated Raine did what Raine always did when life knocked her down. She refused to lie there. Within little more than a year she stunned society once again.

 This time by marrying a Frenchman she met only weeks before. On the 8th of July 1993 she became the wife of Count Jean François Pineton de Chambourcy after a whirlwind courtship that by most accounts lasted a mere 33 days. The speed of it scandalized her critics and amused her friends in roughly equal measure.

 Her detractors whispered that the social climber stood unmasked at last vaulting from one grand name to another without pausing to mourn. The grand French adventure curdled fast. The marriage her enemies read as proof of her shallowness proved hollow on its own terms and within roughly 2 years it collapsed. By 1995, Raine and her count divorced.

 The title of countess discarded almost as fast as she seized it, and she returned to England a Spencer once more in name, shed of a husband, a country, and an illusion inside two short years. At 65, twice widowed in spirit if not in law, most observers assumed her improbable run finally ended. They underestimated her as people generally did.

What came next  confounded everyone. Few turns in a life already crowded with them ranked stranger. In the years after Johnny’s death, around 1993 and 1994, Raine forged a genuine friendship with the one Spencer child the world watched most closely, Diana, Princess of Wales. The two women who once shared a staircase shoving match began dining together, often at the Connaught Hotel, two famous survivors of the same gilded battlefield comparing scars over dinner.

The stepmother and the stepdaughter, sworn enemies for nearly 20 years, discovered more common ground than either ever wished to admit. By the time the two women began meeting for dinner, Diana’s fairy tale marriage soured into open warfare. Her separation from Prince Charles in 1992 laid bare years of mutual misery, infidelity, and bitter briefing wars waged through a ravenous press.

 Isolated inside the royal family she married into, estranged from her own mother, and hunted without mercy by photographers, Diana found herself short of allies who grasped the peculiar cruelty of a life lived in a gilded cage. Raine recognized it at once. The stepmother she once shoved down a staircase turned out to rank among the few people alive who knew exactly what Diana endured.

And the strangest friendship of either woman’s life grew straight out of that bleak common ground. On the warmer reading, both women knew what it meant to marry into rigid grandeur as an outsider, to suffer judgment from people who inherited their status rather than earned it. Diana, locked in her own war with the House of Windsor, may well have recognized in Raine a fellow combatant against the suffocating expectations of aristocratic life.

 Time and pain pushed them together. Two women bruised by the same cold machinery found, late and unexpectedly, that they could speak to each other. A colder reading lingers underneath, and the more cynical historians refuse to let it go. By the mid-1990s, Diana grew bitterly estranged from her own mother, Frances Shand Kydd, the same woman whose snubbing once sent Diana flying at Raine on the Althorp stairs.

To embrace Raine openly and in public may have handed Diana a pointed weapon against Frances, a way of declaring she preferred her wicked stepmother  to her own flesh and blood. We cannot crawl inside Diana’s head to settle the matter, and the spike-driven interpretation remains contested rather than proven.

 Still, the timing resists innocence. The alliance carried at least a whiff of calculated cruelty toward an absent mother. Whatever its true motive, the friendship handed Raine a strange vindication in the public eye, and it coincided with the final, surprising act of her professional life. In 1996, the businessman Mohamed Al-Fayed, then owner of Harrods, appointed Raine a director of Harrods International, handing a woman in her late 60s a serious corporate post.

 She declined to treat it as a sinecure. She worked vigorously, managing relationships across international markets, and applying the same drive she once spent on town councils and crumbling roofs. Colleagues who braced for a decorative figurehead met instead a sharp, demanding director who read her briefs and recalled her figures.

 Al-Fayed, no easy man to please, kept her on. The supposed idle parasite in her seventh decade reported for duty and earned her keep. The friendship outlasted the marriage that first threw both women together, but it did not outlast Diana herself. On the 31st of August, 1997, Diana died in a car crash in Paris, killed alongside Dodi Fayed, the son of Raine’s own employer at Harrods.

 The woman Raine reconciled with so improbably vanished at 36, and the strange late alliance closed almost as abruptly as it began. Whatever its motives, the bond ended in a Paris underpass. Raine kept working,  kept entertaining, and kept her facade immaculate almost to the end, the Cartland lessons holding firm through every reversal a single life can absorb.

On the 21st of October, 2016, she died of cancer at the age of 87, and her body found rest in North Sheen Cemetery in Southwest London, far from the grand crypts of the family that threw her out. The obituaries split predictably along the old fault line. Some writers recalled acid rain, the gold-digging wicked stepmother of legend, while others, looking harder, named the politician, the preservationist, and the woman who saved a house.

 A quiet poetry attends where she came to rest. The grand Spencer dead lie at Great Brington near Althorp in the vault their ancestors filled across the centuries, and Diana herself lies on the island at Althorp that Charles turned into her shrine. Raine lies in neither place. She rests in North Sheen Cemetery in suburban Southwest London, a public burial ground far removed from the ancestral grandeur she defended and rescued, parted in death from the family that cast her out in life.

 The woman who fought so hard to belong among them did not, in the end, lie among them. Even her grave records the verdict the Spencers passed. The case against her holds real weight. Raine could turn imperious, thin-skinned, and overwhelming, armored in a social ambition she inherited whole from her mother and never once apologized for.

Her taste at Althorp struck the aristocracy as garish, and she liquidated centuries of accumulated Spencer heritage with a cold pragmatism that wounded her stepchildren even where it rescued their inheritance.  People who found her unbearable did not invent the quality from nothing. She handed them ample material.

 In the years since her death, a slow reassessment chips at the legend. Obituaries and historians, freed at last from the heat of the Diana years, weigh the politician and the rescuer against the caricature, and the balance tilts far less lopsided than the tabloids ever allowed. Time treats her more kindly than her stepchildren did.

The grandchildren of her fiercest critics now wander the streets and galleries her stubbornness pulled back from the wrecking ball. The Covent Garden she saved still hums with crowds. The National Portrait Gallery she defended still hangs its pictures. And Althorp still stands on the foundations she paid to secure.

 A woman remembered for one cruel nickname left behind a string of London landmarks that outlasted nearly everyone who mocked her. The villain of the fairy tale, in the end, outclassed everyone else in the room. Raine McCorquodale arrived with no inherited rank, climbed by sheer will into the upper reaches of a class designed to shut her out, rescued one of its monuments with her own money, nursed its  dying lord back toward life, and left through the door in rubbish bags for her trouble.

 Her stepchildren still live in the house she saved. They keep her name out of the family story and her grave miles from their own. Yet the house keeps standing on her money all the same.

 

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